The Portrait helps you work with the version of a person you carry in your mind — not the whole of who they are, and not the real person in the room. It is relationship education and emotional wellness. It is not therapy, diagnosis, or a measure of anyone’s worth.
Build the person you’re carrying, see the relationship from both sides, and find the one thread you can move. Shift one quality, and the whole picture rebalances.
Give the version of them in your mind a form. This is your image of them — you can change it any time you return.
Rate each quality for them and for yourself, 1 to 10. Rating yourself too is the point: this is a system you’re both inside, not a scorecard.
Adjust the sliders above and the widest gap between you will surface here.